
Pause When Agitated
AA Recovery Resources
Step Work Help & Sobriety Support
written with 38 years of real experience, zero bullshit
Welcome to Pause When Agitated, an experience-based addiction recovery blog created to support anyone seeking sobriety without the dogma that can make it more difficult then it needs to be. Here you’ll find honest stories, practical AA recovery help, and guidance for working the 12 steps in a way that makes sense for you.
Whether you’re new to the program or years into sobriety, our posts and guides offer Alcoholics Anonymous guidance rooted in real-life experience. We provide free sobriety support resources for newcomers, families, and anyone looking to prevent relapse. You’ll also find step-by-step reflections designed to give you simple, straightforward AA step work help.
Sobriety is possible, and it doesn’t have to be complicated. Explore the resources below to get started.
Free Sobriety Support Resources
- Alcoholism FAQ – There is a whole lot of rehab spin on alcoholism. This article addresses those with the current facts about alcoholism and recovery.
- New to AA Checklist – You’re new and been told to go to AA? Here is the guidance you to need to help you avoid a nightmare that leaves you drinking again.
- How to Share at an AA Meeting – Suddenly you’re asked to ‘share.’ Here’s practical advice on what to say and how to say it without making a fool of yourself.
- Advanced Recovery Topics – Sober awhile bored to death with the “same old AA people and shares.” You are not alone. If you want to reengage without losing your mind, this article will help.
- AA for Atheists? – Lost your faith? Tainted by organized religion? Or simply choosing to live without God? You’re not alone, and you can get sober without a Higher Power.
Meet Jim S. – Site Creator

Jim S. has maintained sobriety through AA for 38+ years in California’s Gold Country. He created Pause When Agitated to share personal recovery insights and support others navigating their sober journey. This independent site reflects personal experience, not official AA positions.
More about Jim’s Story can be in this personal message.
Jim’s Approach to Recovery
AA is about two things, abstinence and connecting with other alcoholics. Everything else is dogma.
I’m no guru. I am just a skeptical sober person on the lookout for BS and hypocrisy.
I’ve found a ton of both in me.
Much has been learned about addiction science since Bill and Bob got together in 1935. Let’s not ignore it.
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- The Newcomer’s Guide to Recovery – What to Expect, What Really Works, and How to Find Your Path
- 10 Things Families Need to Know About Alcoholism – A Guide to Supporting – Not Controlling – Your Loved One’s Recovery
- The Complete Guide to Relapse Prevention – Understanding the Science, Recognizing Warning Signs, and Building Lasting Recovery