If you’re new to recovery, you’re in the right place. These resources will help you understand what to expect and how to build a foundation for lasting sobriety starting strong.
Essential Reading for Your First 90 Days
Week 1-2: Understanding What You’re Facing
- Understanding Alcoholism as a Disease
- What to Expect in Early Recovery
- Why Willpower Isn’t Enough
Week 3-4: Building Your Foundation
- Finding Your First AA Meeting
- Choosing a Sponsor: What to Look For
- The Importance of “One Day at a Time”
Month 2: Developing Healthy Habits
- Creating Structure in Early Recovery
- Dealing with Cravings and Urges
- Building a Recovery Network
Month 3: Strengthening Your Recovery
- Working the Steps: Getting Started
- Handling Difficult Emotions Sober
- Planning for Challenging Situations
Common Questions Newcomers Ask
“How long until I feel normal again?”
Everyone’s timeline is different, but most people start feeling significantly better after 30-90 days. Your brain and body are healing from the effects of alcohol.
“Do I really need meetings every day?”
Many people find daily meetings helpful in early recovery. You’re building new habits and surrounding yourself with people who understand what you’re going through.
“What if I relapse?”
Relapse doesn’t mean failure. Many people with long-term sobriety had false starts. What matters is getting back on track as quickly as possible.
Your 90-Day Checklist
- □ Attend your first AA meeting –
- Keep an Open Mind – don’t be critical or judgy.
- □ Get phone numbers from other people in recovery
- If you get the number, call them. Ask quesitons.
- □ Find a temporary sponsor
- □ Start reading recovery literature
- The Big Book, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions are essential.
- □ Begin working Step 1
- □ Establish a daily routine
- Having a job is a good thing in early recovery!
- □ Remove alcohol from your environment
- □ Tell trusted people about your recovery
- □ Find healthy activities to fill your time
- □ Celebrate small milestones (7 days, 30 days, etc.)
Remember
- Progress, not perfection
- One day at a time
- You don’t have to do this alone
- Millions of people have walked this path before you
- Recovery is possible
“The longest journey begins with the first step, because it’s the hardest to make.”
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